I found out that there are voices that are still discussin about my decisions - thus putting out my choices, my mistakes, my PAST out in the open.

Tough luck - what can I do about it, anyway? People talk - that's what makes us human.

What I can do is just to say this - It's my life.

As Dolores O' Riordan says in the Cranberries' Free to Decide - "I live as I choose or I will not live at all".

My point exactly.