Alhamdulillah buah hati kami Aqil Zehni sudah sebelas bulan dan hampir setahun (15 Mac). Aqil sekarang dah pandai berjalan (mula berjalan sejak 10 bulan). Suka main bola, suka dengar muzik dan suka kutip benda2 kecil masuk mulut (ni yang mama tak tahan ni )
Dari umur 9 bulan dulu mama dah sedar aqil ni menunjukkan gejala "separation anxiety". Asyik nak berkepit je especially kalau mama dan papa around. And now it's getting worst . Risau + stress jugak. Rumah memang lintang pukang sebab mama kena layan aqil je. Dekat rumah aqil masih fully bf. Mungkin betul kata orang baby bf ni sensitif. Kalau tido malam bila mama bangun sekejap pun dia boleh sedar.Tapi bila difikirkan kesian dekat aqil. Dari awal pagi sampai petang kena tinggal di nurseri. Ramai-ramai kat nurseri tu sure cikgu tak dapat bagi attention dekat semua. Sebab tu nak attention lebih kot bila balik rumah. Bila baca kat internet itu perkara biasa dan InsyaALLLAH akan hilang pada jangkamasa tertentu, barulah lega sikit
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SEPARATION ANXIETY Wasn't it delicious when your infant preferred you to anyone else on the planet? Now that your child is bigger, though, and he falls apart whenever you head to the bathroom without him, his attachment seems downright obsessive. Hang in there. He's experiencing separation anxiety, a developmental phase that nearly all children go through (sometimes more than once) during their early years. And, thankfully, it isn't permanent
At around 6 months, your baby begins to realize that you and he are separate, which means that you could leave him. He's also capable of "representational thinking" now, which means that he can picture objects (like you) in his mind after they're no longer visible. In other words, out of sight no longer means out of mind. (This is one reason why he suddenly gets such a kick out of "peekaboo.") As your child grows into toddlerhood, he's developing a strong drive for independence, but he still needs your undying support. All this can lead to a fear that you've abandoned him whenever you're not there.
It's unclear why some kids pass through this phase with barely a whimper while other children become consumed by it. Whatever the reason or intensity, you'll be happy to know that your toddler will outgrow this phase. When? Well, that's a tricky one. Separation anxiety tends to wax and wane throughout the toddler years. But most experts agree that the period of extreme neediness usually passes between 18 months and 2 1/2 years. By age 3 he should be fully out of it. In the meantime, here are some tips and tricks for making departures go a little smoother.
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. Risau + stress jugak. Rumah memang lintang pukang sebab mama kena layan aqil je. Dekat rumah aqil masih fully bf. Mungkin betul kata orang baby bf ni sensitif. Kalau tido malam bila mama bangun sekejap pun dia boleh sedar.Tapi bila difikirkan kesian dekat aqil. Dari awal pagi sampai petang kena tinggal di nurseri. Ramai-ramai kat nurseri tu sure cikgu tak dapat bagi attention dekat semua. Sebab tu nak attention lebih kot bila balik rumah. Bila baca kat internet itu perkara biasa dan InsyaALLLAH akan hilang pada jangkamasa tertentu, barulah lega sikit 
