| Saturday, 15-Sep-2007 05:41 |
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Picture In A Picture
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Salam Ramadhan
Wow...has it been really a month since my last entry? And, its already the 3rd day of Ramadhan. Its time for new resolutions lah for all of us.
And, im getting nearer to upgrading my life's status, Insyallah. From a single guy, to a married man. And now, most probably less than a month from today...im gonna be a dad.
Hehe...never thought that day would come this fast. Half of my friends dah pun meninmang anak masing-masing. Some dah ada dua dah. Some have already one, and one more on the way. Some are just waiting for the days to come(like me)  . And, some still awaits their turn. Yup, semua ni rezeki yg tuhan bagi. Its up to Allah to decide, if your getting one early or latter. Don't lose to much sleep over it. Beside, think of it as an extended honeymoon period. Heheh 
Being a dad? What do i know about being a father? Heck...what do i know. I've never been one. Although all of has a father, or a father figure to look up to. Maybe, i'll just look from there and improvise and upgrade whenever it is needed, eh? It is simple?
Don't think so. I know my parents had a hard time parenting our small family( 3adik beradik jer). Just think of how some people can manage, like 9-10 children. Perghh...  . My cousins ada yg datang from a BIG family. 9-10 orang adik beradik. Sometimes, i envy them. 
But, back to being a parent. Are we all ready to be a parent? To me, ready or not...the time is coming and nak ke taknak, we have to change. Well, i need to change. Tak leh la lagi pikir cam orang bujang lagi. I know...sometimes i do think like a bachelor, gi minum malam2 dengan kengkawan. main futsal, pastu gi minum. pergi kedai potong dengan member. Lets face it, before marriage, some of us spend way to much time with friends. Its hard to let that go, when ur married.
Luckily, i have an understanding minik who although sometimes feel that i spend too much time with friends..doesn't stop me from doing things i like. Macam gi minum2 kat kedai mamak, sambil tengok EPL.
Those things, although nak kata dibuang terus memang i won't commit. But, pembahagian masa between friends and family is something that i need to start doing.
How to be a good dad? Hmm...haven't thought about it yet. But, im pretty sure, semua org nak jadi ibubapa yg terhebat, supaya anak-anak tu nanti jadi manusia yg terhebat...aminn
So, yeah. Start thinking of my family first. 
p/s--congrats to Che Kiah, dah dapat anak dah! 
congrats gak kat sern & liza. Dapat adik la Nabil tahun depan... 
salam ramadhan untuk semua
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