On 31.3.07, my family went to my ex-girlfirend's (since she is now my fiance, thus elevating her status from my 'girlfriend' to my 'fiance') house for the customary engagement visit known as the "adat betunang". Custom dictates that i could not attend the ceremony but was I graciously invited to enjoy the food and for some photo session with my beloved. (Thank you future papa dan mama mertuaku!)