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| Friday, 2-Mar-2007 16:34 |
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Emma and her run away maid
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lama dah tak mengupdate fp nih kan...*rasanya every entry pun cam gitu  *...hehe…
but this time i have solid reason for not updating this fp....'em busy...seriously busy!
nak tau tak mommies...emma's maid RUN away!!! argggghhhhhhhhh amatla tension... 
to those yg dah dgr version dari mulut mummy sendiri...tau la cemana perasaan mummy nih tau...especially those yg mummy called on the day she ran away.. thanks for listening frens! i really appreciate it..time tuh everything mixed up!..rasa nak nangis ada..terasa cam org bodoh sbb kena tipu ngan maid pun ada...marah pun ada......huh…but now dah ok sket… 
dlm berita tv3 hangat bercerita pasal maid lari nih, tak sangka maid emma pun leh lari gaks...and she's one of the 30,000 maids who ran away from employer...dia nak jugak masuk statistik tuh tau..
Well, lets share things that i can recall...
It happenned on Tuesday morning, 13 February....genap2 si maid nih keja 6 bulan...
it was 8.30 am...dan pagi tuh cam tak biasa, mummy duduk dlm bilik emma tgh mengemas wardrobe emma...asingkan baju2 yg dah tak muat, so blh la simpan for baby nnt...si maid tuh plak nak kasi emma bfast la kononnya...dia pun masuk la bilik mummy utk amik susu dan botol2 emma...i noticed the time when she went in..tapi..terasa cam..eh..apasal lama sgt masuk tapi tak kuar2 nih..till suddently i heard bunyi key chain handbag tuh terkena kat lantai...coz i put my handbag on the floor kan...
berderau la darah mummy nih...terus bgn pergi ke bilik...si maid tuh pun dan2 tu la kuar...ngangkut botol seme...i terus gi check handbag kat satu compartment nih...and yes! the pasport is not there anymore!  damn!
terus kejar tgk dia kat bawah...sergah dia, tanya dia ada amik pasport ke tak...dan dia cam ayat poyo suh check badan dia...siap angkat baju seme..wat aksi2 org tatau pape kan...tak bersalah camtuh...so i plak malas la nak tuduh2..tapi rasa cam kompem pasport tuh sepatutnya ada kat situ...
so naik balik ke bilik..called hubby tanya kut2 ada amik pasport si maid tuh..hubby cakap tader...time tuh mmg dah kompem sesgt dia dah curi pasport dia...then terus i call boss ckp nak work from home that day, coz i have a feeling yg dia nak lari..
lepas call tuh, try la cari2 bawah selimut..tilam..kut2 la dia slip kat mana2 dulu...nnt later baru dia nak amik ke kan..sambil mencari2 tuh terdgr plak emma dah melalak2 kat bawah...dgn rasa geram sbb tak reti2 nak senyapkan emma tuh, i turun lah.. 
turun2 tgk seme pintu dah ternganga sampai ke gate...and emma tgh nangis style tak ingat kat booster dia kat living hall tuh...
terus masuk bilik si maid dan ngk seme dah licin..bag besar dia yg amat tuh pun tader dah...kompem lari! tapi pelik nya...cepat betul dia lari ngan bag berat2 tuh...my thot that time nak gi kejar la kononnya...sbb em sure dia tak jauh dr kawasan rumah tuh..our housing area pun guarded...so nak pi suh guard tuh round gak carik sekali...
tapi pikir2 balik dgn emma nya yg nangis2..tak bfast lagi plak tuh!..pastu, segala pintu nak di kunci dulu...dan yg paling penting baby dlm perut nih...kang ada plak additional unexpected things happen kan...so takpe lah...forget it...gasak la minah indon tuh nak gi mana pun...tak kuasa aa nak mencari dia...kalo jumpa pun apa nak wat?...nak angkut dia gi balai? nak kasi buku lima kat dia ke?...
kalo setakat nak memuaskan hati sendiri je kan, baik tak payah...i have two babies to take care of… which is more important than her..
then i went to my neighbour's hse...just nak inform my maid ran away and nak gi wat report...and i was supprised bila dia kasi tau rupanya lepas hubby kuar at ard 7 am pagi tuh...kejap tuh dia pun kuar...but after few minutes she came back...i think masa tuh dia gi hantar segala reta dia kat somewhere else...hubby cakap, maybe kat masjid...coz our hse is like 100 metres from the mosque...and she came back only to get eh no..to steal her pasport from me!
tak lama pastu papa emma pun balik...we made a police report, and straight went to agent and made complaints and claims..  agent tuh pun cam hampeh sket..mcm2 hal dia wat...ada je alasan...mmg serik sgt dah ngan agent nih...replacemnt mmg kompem lah tak dapat...insurance claim pun byk sgt alasan dia!
and petang tuh jugak, we went to this new agent called Prestamas to get a new maid... nampak mcm ok...masa nak amid yg lari nih dulu pun, we went to Prestamas first.. tapi dia cam lambat sket...since lambat sgt, we went to this stupid agent...cepat lah sket... rupa2nya mendatangkan masalah! so this time the Prestamas owner, which we call auntie anis bagi bykkkk nasihat on maid....hmmm..dgr je la kan... tapi..mmg betul pun apa dia ckp..we r careless! i shouldnt put the pasport in my handbag. Some more, i gave her rm 50 the night before she ran away. memula dia nak semua gaji dia..tapi i tak kasi...i ckp i tader duit time tuh...malas nak layan...tapi last2 kasi gak la rm 50...sbb kesian plak tgk dia beria nak duit...
auntie anis tuh marah lagi...sbbnya, dia kata kita tak blh langsung kasi dia duit...and know what? On the same night i gave her a ring2 card worth rm30....alasan dia, dia nak call kampung, tanya pasal anak2 dia...
hmm..kena lagi ngan auntie anis tuh.... and when i told auntie anis that i didnt sign any insurance form when the time i applied for that maid with that agent, i kena marah lagi ngan auntie anis tuh...mmg betul...we r careless! 
tapi auntie anis ni ok...dia jugak la yg tolong meng settle kan hal2 terminate maid nih, and teach me how to warn that agent in getting my insurance claim..tapi to compare the total fee...mmg Prestamas nih mahal sket dr agent lama...yg agent lama tuh dlm 5K+ jek..but this time, more than 6K...dahla tuh...gaji maid monthly pun mahal sket...hmm...tapi at this point, i care less bout money...i just want the assurance!! can i buy the assurance?  duit abis berbelas ribu utk maid....but can we assure them? keja elok2, tak buat hal, tak lari sesuka hati...tak menambah peningkan kepala nih…
kalo nak ikutkan maid emma nih ok..keja dia bagus...emma pun happy je dgn dia...
and we treated her well...very well indeed...siap kasi phone card utk call kampung...i siap post kan barbie utk anak dia kat indon...keja dia mmg jaga emma jek..masak memasak pun beberapa kali jek...sbb kitaorg bukannya jenis mkn kat umah pun… kemas2 rumah pun time emma ngan kitaorg...so, tak nampak la apa alasan dia lari...
tapi kitaorg rasa si maid nih kena tipu ngan agent2 yg meng recycle maid nih...maybe ada org datang time kitaorg tader kat umah, and pujuk dia utk lari...selang sebuah dari rumah kitaorg pun maid dia lari jugak...my officemate pun maid dia lari jugak...all happened within this 2-3 weeks...
bila jadi camnih yg paling kesian nya sapa lagi kalo bukan emma  ....masuk maid baru nih nnt dah 3 maid dia since she was born...few days lepas maid tuh lari, dia cam trauma sket biler org tinggalkan dia...kalo tgh elok2 dok main ngan mummy...tetiba biler mummy quickly bgn...sure dia akan menjerit2 nangis  ...tak blh kena tinggal langsung!...sanggup ikut mana saje mummy pegi..seb baik dah pandai jalan sendiri...kalo nak mummy dukung setiap masa mmg mummy dah tak larat sgt la kan...
and nasib baik gak time tuh ada break lama CNY...so biler ada papa sekali...dia cam tak la terasa sgt...dia cam leh lupa jap maid tuh...
fyi, mummy has been working from home since the maid ran away...lama gak....almost 3 weeks...and now nenek and atuk (papa's side) berbesar hati nak tolong jagakan emma... 
on mummy's side nenek emma is still working..so tak dapat la nak tolong jaga emma full time...at first, mummy ingat nak wfh je sampai dapat new maid...tapi pikir2 balik...dah la tak lama lagi nak cuti panjang 2 bulan kan...kang ada pulak org ingat dah resign...hehehe..sbb tak nampak2 batang idung kat opis... 
tapi mummy will still be working from home at least 2 days in a week till...dunno when...hehe...at least, max pun 3 days a week je la nenek jaga emma...the rest blh la mummy tgk2 kan sekali...
i am really glad dan bersyukur sgt dgn keja skang...alhamdulillah, biler jadi benda2 unexpected camni, i am flexible with work...like now, i can just work from home...so i can have time for emma...
tapi since tgk dia dah recover dari trauma dia tuh...nenek ngan atuk pun tolong2 amik alih jaga emma biler mummy dah start gi opis baru2 nih..dah 3 hari dah derang jaga emma..hehehe...
b4 gi opis mummy dah bereskan seme hal2 emma...cuci & sterilize & lap bottles, masak emma nye lunch, machine & hang baju2 emma.. mandikan emma...kasi emma bfast....dlm 10 to 10.30 am cam tuh baru la mummy gerak ke opis...mmg penat walaupun nenek byk membantu...
bukannya apa...nak kasi nenek tinggal jaga emma jek...kalo tak cian nenek ngan atuk nnt...tak terkejar2 ngan si kecik sorang tuh...nenek pun nak kena masak lunch utk derang nnt kan...
kol 4.30 pm mummy dah rushing nak balik...sbb nak mandikan emma ptg plak....sorry ye nenek..mummy tak confident nenek mandikan emma...sbb emma amatla lasak...dia jenis tak leh dok diam..nak2 tpt licin camtuh...so biarlah mummy yg mandikan emma pagi petang...mummy willing to do that and i will do it to my very best!
huh! These few weeks mmg penattt!!  tak terkata penatnya...merasa gak mummy jadi "true mummy"...hehe...
alhamdulillah, baby dlm perut nih pun ok dan tak mendatangkan apa2 masalah setakat nih...dia pun membiarkan mummy melayan je karenah kakak emma dia yg sorang tuh...hoping everything goes well for us after this.. 
other updates, we celebrated mummy's bday last Wednesday, 28th February  ...we went for makan2 kat usj...nothing much on the makan2 session..ala2 meriah gitu..sbb atuk nenek seme ikut  ...since derang kat sini kan..takkan nak tinggalkan ngan emma ek...tak sampai hati plak...hehe…
but there's something special on the bday present... we'll see this wiken! 
Also, emma's turning 1 this Saturday!!! esok la 03/03 kan? ..a'ah ek..esok la tuh...hehe...
as planned, there's no bday bash for her, but we'll organize something special and memorable for her...
...wait for the next entry ya!!...
 
siapa itewwww.... its emma! 'em everywhere now okeh!
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